“Love and Sex”
It controls and changes lives
We all know what is love nah
I also know we all have fallen in love b4
Nobody ever Loved until something left them
Love gives and takes. If you ever loved without something leaving you, you are not serious in fact If you plan to fall in love get ready to give and take.
Example of things we give and take 👇🏻
Time
Money
Gifts
Kiss
Sex
Etc
Judges 16Verse 15
Love should be from the heart. Love should gain trust.
Sex is the best gift for your spouse alone, but should not be seen as the best compensation for someone you are not married to.
Sex is not compensation to who you are not married to, it’s a beautiful gift just for 1 person. No man sins or disobeys God in the name of love. Love is kind, and patient, Love is God.
So let’s ask ourselves again.
What do we do in the name of Love?
Love causes us to give, but we should have boundaries.
Some things should not be played with in the name of Love.
– Sex is Beautiful too, but can turn sour for some people if not done at the right time.
– Sex is beautiful when had properly with the right person
– Sex should not be seen as Compensation but as a precious gift to your lifetime partner.
Why you should avoid premarital Sex.
🎯Solitary Vices, sex in relationships has engaged young people in autoeroticism, which when not satisfied leads to rape, and having multiple sex partners.
🎯Premature Development: there is an order in nature in which our mental Facilities should unfold, Disorder in the unfolding of the sexual nature leads to regrets. A young person’s mind should be filled with Bravery, strength, courage, and purity and not with vile hints, sensual thoughts, and coarse Jests.
🎯Extramarital affair: because of early exposure to sex either or both parties are discontent, dissatisfaction, or displeasure of sex. Couples who remain chaste before marriage report greater satisfaction in their marriages.
🎯Divorce, amongst other causes of divorce, studies show that those who cohabit or engage in premarital sex are more likely to divorce. Because it’s linked to lower marital commitment and higher divorce rates.
🎯Sexual Compatibility: is a myth Those who say you must have premarital experience to make sure you are physically compatible are misleading the younger generation Frankly, some “solutions” leave us worse off than the problems we are trying to avoid.
🎯 Sex in a relationship May hinder a developing relationship.
🎯Loss of self-respect. Another danger of premarital intimacies is that they may open a whole new series of issues that will hinder the relationship in its development. Guilt is a primary issue.
🎯Sexual bonding includes powerful emotional, psychological, physical, and spiritual links that are so strong the two people become one and leave indelible marks on the participants, to believe one can walk away from a sexual experience untouched is dangerously naive.
How long will you have sex with someone to know if they are compatible? It’s a lie from hell.
Questions:
What happens to one who lost or didn’t get the right information about chastity on time, is there a way out?
Response:
Yes. Chastity is beyond a broken hymen. From the day you saw the light of God run with it, come out of guilt, and get it right with God