I conducted a self-assessment session with a group of boys, focusing on the topic of what today’s boys aspire to become.
I reminded them how today’s boys will eventually become men tomorrow, with many expectations and responsibilities.
During the session, I asked each of them what their goals were for the future. After reviewing their notes, I found that they had written down some beautiful aspirations such as becoming successful, hard-working, role models, disciplined, wealthy, engineers, doctors, good leaders, and breadwinners to providers for their families.
Next, I asked them what they thought could hinder them from achieving these goals. Interestingly, most of them wrote down interesting things, to my amazement “women “were leading as the greatest distraction followed by Peer pressure, alcohol, drugs, laziness, and bad image as potential distractions. Once they had finished listing these factors, I asked them if these were things they could control, or if there were other factors such as having a good support system and positive influences that could help them achieve their goals. They agreed that it’s in their hands to become what they want to and it’s also in their fault if they fail.
Following that I asked them to list How they can avoid those factors.
Overall, it was amazing to see these young boys understand that they have the power to overcome obstacles and achieve their dreams. Sometimes engage your teenagers to see and learn through themself.
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So I had a candid conversation with her, I wanted to help, and we talked about it at length, but it was deeper than I thought. She has changed but it still hurts and hunts her even her home.
Before her marriage she has been with different men with different sizes of Penis, she enjoyed some and didn’t enjoy some, to her it’s all fun and cruise but now she is married and expected to be with one man in the name of marriage.
Unfortunately, Sexual satisfaction was her biggest problem, she doesn’t enjoy sex with her husband, and it sucks her marriage, she always compared him with the men she has been with, and the picture of other men keep playing in her mind, several she has also thought of leaving the marriage. Khai, this is just not fair on my gender, why does it hurt us more? Hmmm! Well, this is a fictional but true story of what early exposure to sex and sexual affairs has landed some people🥲
Most times we think that some life choices and decisions deny us some pleasure and comfort We also think we are doing God a favor or anyone a favor, not knowing that God captured us safely in his will, GOD IS NOT SELFISH, in God’s will lies true Joy, peace and fulfillment.
Friends, Sexual purity is beyond just Pleasing God it’s securing your future, it’s enjoying your marriage, it’s for your mental health. While living for today, don’t forget there is a beautiful future we can’t jeopardize. Meanwhile, there is hope if you have missed it.
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